The Impact of Negativity and Fear in Media on Children

Author: Rick Sherrill, EDGE Educator

In our current political climate, the intensity and negativity of media coverage can be overwhelming for adults and children alike. Kids, especially those with developing brains, lack the critical thinking skills to process hyperbole and political conflict seen online, on TV, and in other media forms. Phrases like "America's going to hell" or dire predictions about crime, climate change, war, the economy, and jobs can instill anxiety, fear, or anger in young minds.

Children, particularly older school-age students and teens, are deeply impacted by the stress and anxiety surrounding them. They are at a stage where they are developing autonomy and moving beyond concrete thinking. The strong emotions that come with political discourse can exacerbate their stress and anxiety, creating a sense of uncertainty about the future, especially if they see their parents and caregivers in distress.

While it might be tempting to shield children from politics entirely, it is essential to approach the subject without emotion. Talking to kids about political issues and differing views is crucial. This is an opportunity to engage in discussions about civics, leadership, and government, encouraging mutual respect before diving into political arguments. Ask them what they know, listen to their perspectives, and respond at a level appropriate for their developmental stage. Let the child guide the conversation, keeping questions open-ended to foster a thoughtful dialogue.

While some parents of high schoolers might feel it’s important to allow them to express their views, it’s probably more wise vital to remind them that their social media posts can have lasting impacts. Encourage responsible social media behavior and good citizenship online.

As parents, we aim to instill our values in our children, which may include political views. However, it’s crucial to allow children to see all sides of issues and acknowledge different perspectives. This balanced approach helps them develop their own informed opinions, which should often take years of life experience to develop.

Children are highly sensitive to the emotions of their parents. Avoid heated political discussions in front of them. If such discussions occur, it’s important to address the situation afterward, explaining how emotions can sometimes take control and demonstrating healthy coping strategies. This helps children learn how to problem-solve and work through issues constructively. Avoid making dramatic statements like, "If this candidate wins, we are moving." Young children might take such statements literally, causing unnecessary distress about leaving their friends, school, and activities.

Equip your children to handle potential teasing or bullying about political views at school. Practice responses together, provide them with language they can use, and reassure them that walking away is always an option. Encourage empathy, listening to others, and understanding different viewpoints.

Teach kids to question what they hear and see in the media. Help them understand that not everything should be taken at face value and emphasize the importance of researching from multiple sources. This can be a joint activity, fostering a shared learning experience.

Remind children that, despite differing opinions, we all share similar goals – safety, happiness, and the best for our country. Keeping discussions calm and positive, and reassuring children can help them navigate the often tumultuous political landscape with confidence and resilience.